The onus of the breakdown of our family structure is on both the Black man and the Black woman! Personally, I am tired of seeing men blame just women and women blame just men. Women are to blame for not being more observant of the character of the man they are considering. Now, I know that isn’t just your fault because you have been taught to some degree that a man with a good job, house, and car is a good man to have. But what you ladies have to understand is that has nothing to do with how a man will treat you. I blame women for telling themselves that their eyes didn’t see what they saw. Ladies, we see the signs but because we want to be in a relationship or want to be with that person, we tell ourselves that it’s not what we saw it was, stop doing that. I blame women for having children prematurely because again, without knowing a man’s character how do you know if he’ll be a good father or if he want to be a father?
Women are to blame for the good men that are out there who think negatively about women in general. Allot of us get good guys and ruin them with our disgusting games and ways. I blame black men for thinking it is okay to bite every apple in the bag! He is to blame by preying on the fact that women are naturally naïve and gullible hence, we are easily fooled by your ridiculous charm. He is to blame because he doesn’t care or realize that woman know man as their strength and protector hence, in a woman’s mind, that man won’t do her wrong. Yes, the black man is to blame by not being truthful about his intentions. I would like men to understand that when a good woman decides to have sex with you, you need to understand exactly what is in her mind. It is not just the sex! That woman is putting her trust and faith in you thinking she has a relationship and thinking the both of you will take on the world together. Do you have any idea of how damaging it is to a woman to hear a man call her a whore, hoe, or abruptly quit on her and move on to the next woman? Personally, I think you men lack compassion because you throw woman’s nature back in her face! So here’s my questions, ladies, when are you going to learn to stop being a victim and men, when are you going to stop making women your victim?
Women are to blame for the good men that are out there who think negatively about women in general. Allot of us get good guys and ruin them with our disgusting games and ways. I blame black men for thinking it is okay to bite every apple in the bag! He is to blame by preying on the fact that women are naturally naïve and gullible hence, we are easily fooled by your ridiculous charm. He is to blame because he doesn’t care or realize that woman know man as their strength and protector hence, in a woman’s mind, that man won’t do her wrong. Yes, the black man is to blame by not being truthful about his intentions. I would like men to understand that when a good woman decides to have sex with you, you need to understand exactly what is in her mind. It is not just the sex! That woman is putting her trust and faith in you thinking she has a relationship and thinking the both of you will take on the world together. Do you have any idea of how damaging it is to a woman to hear a man call her a whore, hoe, or abruptly quit on her and move on to the next woman? Personally, I think you men lack compassion because you throw woman’s nature back in her face! So here’s my questions, ladies, when are you going to learn to stop being a victim and men, when are you going to stop making women your victim?
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