Learning "The Good Selfish"

Being selfish is a gr8 way to be when it comes to learning about oneself and finding out just exactly who you are as a person and what makes you happy. You may ask why this is so important. Well, if you don’t know yourself and what make you happy, how will you know what to take part in or what not to take part in? How will you know which direction to go in life, who or what type of person you should date or be involved with, and the list goes on. The key to any happiness begins with a time of being selfish. “The Good Selfish” is what I call it!

Is Happiness only a state of Mind?

Being happy is not just a state of mind, it is a result of choices and decisions we make. The first step to being happy is learning how to be by yourself, this will give you ample time to know exactly the person you are. Many of us do not like to be alone and think we are who people tell us we are. This is the perfect mixture for failure and unhappiness! The best YOU is the confident YOU and true confidence comes from knowing exactly who you are. Anything else will make you a conglomerate of several opinions which will have you all over the place or running in place. Remember being alone is not the same as being lonely~

Wealthy in Spirit!

You have to be wealthy in spirit before you can achieve any type of monetary wealth. A wealthy being attracts many souls, understand this so that you can overstand~

Something to Think about.

There's the saying "you can't have a Godly woman if you’re not a Godly man" and vice versa. This saying is true, not because you can't have a holy person if you're unholy but because the holy spirit and a demon cannot live under the same roof. That is just impossible!

Beauty

Some say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, i say the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This gives you the freedom to find beauty in places others wouldn't dare look, including in ourselves. ~Author is My Love~

Facts about being Happy

Do you guys know studies show that some people were born with the Happy Gene and for some, happiness is learned? Yes people, it is true! I remember when i was pre-school age and in gramar school, i was always overly excited to see friends or always extra happy and had the need to say hi or good morning to every one. I even went out of my way to say hello to people including strangers! I am *smiling* yes i was born with the Happy Gene, how about you all?