Learning "The Good Selfish"

Being selfish is a gr8 way to be when it comes to learning about oneself and finding out just exactly who you are as a person and what makes you happy. You may ask why this is so important. Well, if you don’t know yourself and what make you happy, how will you know what to take part in or what not to take part in? How will you know which direction to go in life, who or what type of person you should date or be involved with, and the list goes on. The key to any happiness begins with a time of being selfish. “The Good Selfish” is what I call it!
Many of us never had that opportunity or don’t realize we need this time in our lives and choose to be selfish after having children or while in a relationship or marriage. We cannot afford to be selfish if we have children or are in a relationship or marriage. This is the time when we should be self-less because we have people who need our love and nurture. Out of time selfishness is what causes relationships and families to fall apart, it is not bad that you realize you need to have that time for yourself but if you have a family and marriage, you need to work out a plan with your significant other to have some time for yourself during the least busiest time of your family’s schedule instead of taking it upon yourself to do what you want to do. This type of action seems as if you have no regards for your unity. Learning when to incorporate your time of selfishness while you’re in a relationship is Key. If you had that time prior to having a family or relationship, it’s even better. Let’s take that first step in learning The Good Selfish!