Just some provocative thoughts~

Although the saying is you are what you attrack, that's not always the case. Most times you attrack people who perceive you to be a certain way and feel they should treat you a certain way. For instance, if you're naturally challenging, u will attrack people who may either want 2 tear you down or challenge you. Now, this may leave the challenger exhausted sometimes because every time they turn around, it's something. If you are passive *sheep*, you will attrack aggressive people or people who want to take advantage of you *wolves* Now, this will also leave the sheep exhausted because everytime they turn around, they are faced with a problematic person. Now here's the flip side to personalities. I've seen mean, heartless people attrack kind and thoughtful people. The kind hearted and thoughtful always want to know why the heartless is heartless. Hummm, why is that? Why do you think the heartless sometimes attract people with better or nicer hearts?